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In the fast-paced world of modern B2B sales, there's an undeniable truth: time is scarce, and planning for ever decreasing prospect interactions has become a formidable challenge. Amid this hustle and bustle, there's a perplexing trend emerging – bosses demand planning but often provide minimal assistance. However, the key to success lies in identifying and utilizing reliable technology solutions and crafting efficient plans that won't consume endless hours, and tempt you to second guess yourselves, because let's face it – your boss may not even read them! These technologies continue to emerge and broadly fit into the categories of AI-powered sales enablement tools, and AI sales coaching tools.


The Technology Advantage

In today's age, technology can be our best ally – or our worst enemy - in how we plan our time and get prepared for our prospects. We have access to a myriad of technological tools designed to help with our planning and our thinking. And therein lies part of the problem – the Paradox of Choice!


You're racing against the clock, managing multiple leads, attending meetings, and staying updated with industry trends. In this whirlwind, finding time to plan & strategize for prospect interactions becomes a luxury. Yet, it’s no longer acceptable to wait to talk to the prospect to gather info on their challenges – they expect you to know at least some of these “before” you meet!


Now, here's where it gets trickier. Your boss expects well-thought-out plans for each prospect call or meeting. They want detailed strategies, objectives, and tactics. They demand that you walk into every interaction with a clear roadmap.


The Importance of Having a Plan

While it's crucial to have a plan for prospect meetings, it's equally important to recognize that the content of the plan isn't always the primary focus. In many cases, what matters most is that you have a plan to show to your boss. Why? Because your boss, like many others, may not have the time to dive into it, in detail. They want assurance that you're prepared and have thought through your approach. So do you, by the way. A well-structured, concise plan can instill confidence and demonstrate professionalism.


Efficiency is Key

Efficiency is paramount. You can't afford to spend hours crafting elaborate plans for each prospect interaction. Re-inventing the wheel, so to speak. Instead, the emphasis should be on creating plans that are effective yet time-efficient. The trick is finding & combining the right tools to help us.


The resulting plan can be simple and original. You’re happy, as you know what the agenda is – what you need to get out of the meeting and what you believe the prospect needs from you, particularly so you can start to create preference in their mind. The prospect will have a better experience as you won’t be winging it! By the way, prospects don't like to get the sense that a meeting has not been planned. They'll rightly feel less important.


Finally, you’ll be able to enjoy the luxury of balancing consistency and originality. Having plans for different phases of the buying cycle that remain steady while reflecting the unique circumstances of each prospect.


Shining the light


Success in modern B2B sales lies partly in your ability to "find an edge." The use of technology and the ability to craft efficient plans that work within our fast-paced environment represents such an edge. While your boss may not have the bandwidth to scrutinize every detail, having a well-structured plan at your fingertips is invaluable. It's about leveraging technology to work smarter, not harder, and presenting plans that showcase your readiness for prospect interactions. So, equip yourself with the right tools, streamline your planning process, and remember that in the world of B2B sales, time is money.


In our dynamic world of communication, we often hear the phrase "use your words." It's a gentle nudge when someone's struggling to articulate their thoughts. Interestingly, while our world is awash with words, their precise use seems to be dwindling. Take the corporate world, for instance, where buzzwords like "pivot" and "robust" are tossed around during meetings, sometimes diminishing the essence of what's actually meant.


Let's dive into B2B sales and marketing, a realm where words can make or break a deal. Consider the term "lead." It's a staple in sales lingo, signifying a potential business opportunity. But, misuse it, and the result? A quagmire of confusion and shattered expectations. The duality of the term “lead” – both as a potential sale and the heavy element from the periodic table – exemplifies the conundrum. One word, when misinterpreted, can weigh down a conversation.


Over the past few decades, "leads" have been the talk of the town. Just scroll through LinkedIn and witness the avalanche of promises regarding lead generation. I've been part of this world since the early '90s, even launching a company dedicated to lead generation. However, one individual revolutionized the lead concept: Marc Benioff of Salesforce.com. While Benioff's Salesforce journey is well documented, it's crucial to note his linguistic genius. Where others saw “Contact Management,” Benioff saw and marketed “Leads,” thereby upscaling the perception and value of his product.


Diving deeper into the psyche of words, let’s draw from psychologists Daniel Kahneman and Amos Tversky's influential work. They presented a scenario where a disease threatens 600 lives, offering two treatments. In one instance, Treatment A was framed as saving 200 lives. Later, they reworded it to say that Treatment A would result in 400 deaths. Their research showcased the incredible sway of phrasing; outcomes framed as losses (deaths) had a stronger emotional impact than those framed as gains (lives saved).


This power of phrasing, of how words are presented, is evident everywhere, even in our professional histories. While I once described my job simply as selling computers for Data General, an IBM colleague portrayed his role as helping CEOs optimize their companies. The choice of words influenced not just external perceptions but also how we perceived our own roles and our place in the professional hierarchy.


Returning to our B2B universe, words are the double-edged sword of the modern era, promising shortcuts and efficiency but sometimes delivering ambiguity. Terms and definitions matter more than ever. For instance, many companies label any contact in their target market as a Marketing Qualified Lead (MQL). But if these leads don’t convert, it's evident that the definition was too superficial. Such a loose definition is akin to boasting about numbers without substance, leading to issues down the road.


Shining the Light


While we're engulfed in what seems like the cleverest period in history, there's a stark difference between being clever and being wise. Wisdom, as Indian psychiatrist Dilip Jeste points out, isn't just about raw intelligence. It's a combination of compassion, practical knowledge, emotional stability, and an ability to see varied perspectives. As we navigate our professional worlds, let’s strive for this wisdom, especially when wielding words.

In B2B sales and marketing, while the allure of words like “lead” is potent, they must be used judiciously. Use them without thought, and they could well be the leaden weight pulling you down. Hence, be thoughtful, be precise, and ensure that your words don’t lead you astray. And remember, one of the greatest deceptions inflicted on the B2B world was when Marc Benioff started to refer to everything in Salesforce as a "lead", while everyone else was talking about "contacts."

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Updated: Oct 30, 2023


In the world of business, we've often heard the adage, "It's all about relationships" and "It's not what you know, it's who you know." However, recent events have brought new dynamics and choices to the forefront, prompting us to question the traditional ways we’d use to build & preserve our relationships. Face -to-face meetings and networking are obvious examples where times have changed, and we must adapt.


Companies increasingly discourage excessive business intimacy to avoid biased buying decisions, while sellers strive to differentiate themselves through stronger relationships. Millennials have introduced new communication and engagement behaviors, challenging the nature of future human relations. Covid further promoted remote business and the physical distance it brings further impact trust and relationship dynamics. In this ever-changing landscape, questions outnumber answers.


Defining business relationships is no easy task. While we focus on professional relationships, we can't ignore the overlap with personal connections and the inherent biases and motivations that come into play. A key challenge is the disingenuous nature of contrived business relationships. Those that lack authenticity.


Relationships in business require vision and shared understanding. Building relationships allows prospects to see the vision, but prospects often want to see the vision before investing in the relationship. That’s a problem! Developing defined business relationships is crucial. Questions surrounding value, boundaries, roles, and risk management need to be addressed, although such discussions are often absent from leaders' and sales teams' conversations.


There is a wealth of information available on building and managing relationships, but the contrived nature of some approaches raises doubts about their authenticity (even back as far as Dale Carnegie’s “how to use friends to influence people.”


The enduring Sirius' Demand Spectrum model helps us understand different types of demand and the relationships required within each category. The nature of our demand type helps us recognize the corresponding nature of our market. What activities are possible or viable and therefore how do our sales motions look and our sellers behave.


Trust is a critical factor in business relationships. However, forces like changes in community structures, fast-spreading bad news, the erosion of trust in institutions, and the prioritization of expediency over ethics have undermined our willingness to assume trustworthiness until proven otherwise. Now it’s more the other way round! Technological advancements and generational shifts have reshaped relationship dynamics, but it is unclear how profoundly they have affected fundamental human behavior.


Shining the Light


Finding a balance is key. Understanding the demand type of your target market helps tailor relationship approaches. Authenticity (and honesty) is crucial in building relationships, as contrived efforts often so (and should) backfire. Instead of attempting to control and plan every interaction, be yourself and let natural connections unfold. Strive for thoughtfulness and embrace a hybrid sales force that combines different approaches. While the landscape of business relationships continues to evolve, the principles of trust, authenticity, and genuine connections remain paramount. By navigating this changing terrain with a balanced and thoughtful approach, meaningful relationships that drive business growth can still be forged.

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